How Our F'd Up Sexual Culture Slowly Breaks Us Ladies And Our 'Gasms
After a discussion with a friend, here is my thoughts about why women’s ability to orgasm with another person might not realistically be as quick, easy, or reliable as masturbating on their own.
Press Kit Response to the Most Controversial part of Science, Sex and the Ladies
A sneak peak of how I’m discussing in the press kit the stance that vaginal orgasm seem to be, well, not a thing if you look at the scientific literature.
Vag-gasms are the Underdog of Orgasms Like Christians are the Underdogs of America
A quick rant about writers and sexperts acting as if the vagina is so overlooked in sex…as if the clit were somehow overpowering the vagina in our sexual culture.
The G-Spot/Vaginal Orgasm Debate is Ridiculous
Some bad pop-science BS article about the clitoral/vaginal orgasm debate. I go off a bit.
Re-Naming Non-orgasms
What if we had names for other types of sexual excitements that were not physical orgasms?
Does Penis Size Matter? Nahhh.
Although penises rubbing inside vaginas do not orgasms make, here’s some considerations to ways that the size of a penis may relate to a woman’s ability to orgasm while having intercourse (like if it’s not long enough, it might be hard to grind the clit against the pelvis the way she needs AND keep the penis from falling out)
SSL-Style Masturbation Manifesta
I snuck in on the last day of national Masturbation month. Here’s some statements about how masturbation and orgasm equality line up.
We Should be More Clit Smart And We Should Be Angry We're Not
A beautiful, personal post over at Frothing at the Brain . It's just a girl who wants to tell the world that she's pissed off about how little information she was given about her clit.
My Love of Playboy Might Have Messed Up My Young Feminist Mojo
I was a straight girl that grinded off to a lot of Playboys in my teens. It was formative, and influenced my early ideas about feminism and sexuality, but with time my ideas have evolved.
I'm Inspired To Get A Little Personal Up In Here
The messy, misinformed sexual culture that hinders lady-gasms isn’t just something I write about, it’s something I live just like every other women out there, but I don’t often discuss my personal experience in it.
Yeah, You Heard Me, Vaginal Stimulation Hasn't Been Shown To Cause Orgasm: A Defense
An orgasm caused by stimulation inside the vaginal canal has never been physically observed in all of scientific literature. Here’s my thesis about that.
In Defense Of My Hetero-centric Style of Female Orgasm Activism
My thoughts about the hetero-centric focus of my activism; pros, cons, ideas. It’s complicated, but my larger hope is really to break down the cis-hetero focus of our cultural sexual script.
The Ol' 'My Wife Don't Have Sex With Me No More' Schtick
Louis C.K does a long bit about how his wife, being a woman, stopped being interested in sex with him, but he completely misses the real story here -and a lot of much better, less basic-ass jokes
Does It Matter That Women Fake in Porn?
Rebecca Kling at Blogher writes and article called, “Why Is It Harder to Suspend Disbelief When We Watch Porn?” That gets me thinking about how impactful the imbalance of ‘acting’ vs. actual orgasm in porn amongst men and women is to our culture.
Girls vs. Boys - First Sexual Images?
What is the impact on girls and boys to have most, and likely their most formative, images of sexuality be female bodies?
Critiquing "The Online World of Female Desire," a Wall Street Journal ArticleThat Ain't So Sophisticated
An article called, “The Online World of Female Desire,” in the Wall Street Journal online takes a bunch of unacceptable liberties with experimental design and scientific conclusions. It also calls the female brain thinking about sex, ‘The Miss Marple Detective Agency,’ so check out more on that…
The Magical World of Girl Culture and Orgasms!!!
A word cluster of girl’s toy commercials recently created by a blogger, where ‘Magic’ was prominent got me thinking about the connection between the way little girls are thought to think about the world and the way grown women might think about our orgasms.
Letting Our Lips Flap - Vulva Lips That Is
My epic argument for using ‘big ol’ swinging lips’ or something like that instead of big balls to denote power and risk-taking.
Consciousness Raising and Orgasm Inequality
We need some more Consciousness Raising Groups for women - like the had in the 70’s.