A Dirty Story With 7 Realistic Lady-gasms!
An SSL Review of the depictions/discussions of female orgasm in an erotic story. It was so surprisingly lady-gasm realistic that I had to write about it.
Masturbation Advice In The Time Of Corona
Since we’re all locked down, why not masturbate? Here’s some SSL-related tips.
"Venkmaning" - Ghostbuster's Most Sexual Predator Moment
I saw a piece of OG Ghostbusters in the breakroom at work. The sexual predator level was high in one of the very first scenes, and I just wanted to write about it. I’m calling it Venkmaning, and I break it down here.
Ribbed for Her Pleasure on the Interwebs: F'd Up Shit
I found some sad yet strangely poignant articles about ‘ribbed for her pleasure’ while researching for my previous post. They were out of scope, but I wanted to give them some air-time here. Spoiler: women need higher sexual expectations.
Ribbed For Her Pleasure Is Some Next Level Bullshit
The idea of ribbed condoms seem to assume the vagina is like an inside-out penis. It is not. “…unless you're using the condom as a glove to rub her clit, the idea that condoms with some texture on them could improve a woman's ability to orgasm is the biggest bullshit.”
Sexy Dude Costumes - A Retro SSL Post
A Halloween re-post that checks in on sexy dude costumes and asks why dude’s aren’t shouldering more of the burden to make this the sexiest adult holiday
Tame Impala Video - Getting Ate Out Awakens Female Sexuality
My assessment of the Tame Impala video “The Less I Know the Better.” I don’t know if it was meant this way, but it really struck me as a look into female sexual awakening and male possessiveness. It’s just a good video too.
Check Out This Music Video, Yo!
A quick post with the video my husband (aka 1 of the 2 others in AnC that made our movie Science, Sex and the Ladies) created for gwendolyn dot’s song “Placentat et al.”
Orgasm Interviews: ANNA Part III (faking, orgasm ed, partner ed, and other stuff)
I interview a reader, “Anna” about specifics of her orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality history and feelings. This is the 3rd of 3 parts.
Orgasm Interviews: ANNA Part II (Intercourse and Non-Intercourse Activities)
I interview a reader, “Anna” about specifics of her orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality history and feelings. This is the 2nd of 3 parts.
Orgasm Interviews: ANNA Part I (Masturbation)
I interview a reader, “Anna” about specifics of her orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality history and feelings. This is the 1st of 3 parts.
Better Sex Scene Ideas
We need better, more realistically lady-gaming sex scenes, people. I have a few ideas.
Lady-gasm Advice for Becca, The Bachelorette
I saw a couple episodes of Rebecca Kufrin on the Bachelorette, and I have thoughts and hopes for her…mostly about using her situation to her advantage. Here’s some quick ideas, Becca.
A Bad-ass Letter from a Bad-ass Woman About Her Orgasms and My Post
A letter from a reader related to a post I wrote about bravado from women in group discussions about orgasm. It’s a beautiful letter, and I love this lady.
Me Telling Cosmo Readers to Rub on Stacks of Laundry in Their Panties
I was asked to write some masturbation ideas for a Cosmo list, and that I did.
Those Ladies Putting On Bravado About Their Orgasms - A Free Flow Writing
A stream on consciousness quick post about lady-gasms where I, among other things, encourage women to maybe ignore the lady in the friend group discussion that is telling everyone that she has always had no problem coming from a good bang.
Cosmo's Sex Positions Are Still Legit As F#@&
Jill Hamilton comes through for Cosmo again with a list of sex positions in the bathroom that are clit focused as hell. She’s pulling Cosmo in the direction of Orgasm Equality, my people.
Bodybuilding Thread And The Clit: A Retro SSL Adventure
A repost from 2013. This is my summary of a thread on a bodybuilding forum about Sophia Wallace’s 101 Laws of Cliteracy. It’s pretty epic, and I think you’ll love finally hearing from BushrodButtram himself that he thinks “all this ‘women can't climax from intercourse’ stuff is greatly exaggerated.
