Does masturbation have to include orgasm - a debate with myself
A bit of a stream of consciousness debate with myself. Is the advice that orgasm shouldn’t be a focus of masturbation sensible and progressive; or is it a secretly poisonous byproduct of a rarely acknowledged sexual culture in which women have very little actual choice and opportunity for orgasm.
Ladies Have Non-Specific Arousal Patterns? - A Journal Article I Read
A detailed, but (mostly) plainly worded summary of a scientific journal article called “A Sex Difference in the Specificity of Sexual Arousal.” My goal is to give more people an opportunity to engage with peer reviewed research about female orgasm and hopefully incorporate it more into our culture understanding.
Random Male Hite Report #23
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
Random Male Hite Report #22
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
Random Male Hite Report #21
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
Random Male Hite Report #20
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
Random Male Hite Report #19
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
Random Male Hite Report #18
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
Random Male Hite Report #17
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
Random Male Hite Report #16
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
Teaching Boys to Masturbate the Unintentional Way!
Laying out some of the unintentional teaching about masturbation that goes on in our culture for boys that does not happen in the same way for girls. It’s not an even playing field.
Random Male Hite Report #15
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
Random Male Hite Report #14
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
The Suave Lover Talks Science, Sex and the Ladies
The men of The Suave Lover podcast saw Science, Sex, and the Ladies, and used it to give out some really thoughtful advice for their listeners. I was impressed. As they said, “...Because sex is supposed to be a pleasurable experience for two people - not just your penis."
Random Male Hite Report #13
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
Random Male Hite Report - #12
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
The Overnight - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in the movie, The Overnight – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
Reverend Hornibastard and the Case of the Male Orgasm
Mr. Reverend Hornibastard and I had some good conversations after a post I’d written, and he decided to write about his experience of orgasm on his blog. I highlight and discuss that here.
Random Male Hite Report #11
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. A great book preceded by The Hite Report, a groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality by Shere Hite. I do these with the hope of getting people to read both these books.
International Day of Female Orgasm in Brazil
I guess a Brazilian politician decided to pay his wife back for all the orgasm-less sex, and Brazil made a day for it - The International Day of Female Orgasm