Was the clitoris really discovered in 1998? (spoiler alert - it wasn't) - An Article I Read
The idea that the inner clit is a relatively new discovery and that it can now explain what might cause a penetrative lady-gasm is BS. Read my very wordy argument along with a detailed summary of the scientific journal article, “Anatomical relationship between urethra and clitoris,” that is often said to have discovered the inner clit for the modern world (it did not).
Shit Sex for the Ladies in Shameless: An SSL Review
Overall review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in the whole of the series Shameless…because the though of separately critiquing every shitty non-clit-including bangfest in this series made my ass tired.
Sparkles, Colored Lights, And Other Things I'm Thinking Of This NYE
Some thoughts on New Years Eve 2020
5 Christmas Movies Directed By Women
A list of 5 Christmas movies I have seen that are directed by women. This is part of an ongoing series to highlight women’s voices in media creation.
Just Watched the SSL Movie Bloopers
Musings on the way we released our movie, Science, Sex, and the Ladies after re-watching the DVD bloopers these many years later
Wanderlust S1Ep1 - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in Wanderlust Season 1 Episode 1 – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
5 Halloween Season Movies #DirectedByWomen
A list of 5 Halloween movies I have seen that are directed by women. This is part of an ongoing series to highlight women’s voices in media creation.
Still Here, but Sadly Shere Hite is Not
A type of love letter to the recently passed Shere Hite. She gave us a gift of lady-gasm knowledge in the early 70’s. She got a lot of hate for it, but worst of all, she and her gift of knowledge eventually became marginalized and largely forgotten. It remains that way to this day, but I believe it’s too important to stay down.
The Hite Report is bad-ass, but not much has changes - AKA I love you Shere Hite
Someone sent me an article Shere Hite wrote in 2008. It struck me how frustrating it must have been writing an article that was still railing against the same P-in-V obsessed sexual culture she was railing against when she did her monumental lady-gasm survey in the early 70’s. I know she’d hoped things would have changed some by 2008, but they sadly have not.
5 Docs #DirectedByWomen That I Hope You'll Like
A list of 5 documentaries I have seen that are directed by women. This is part of an ongoing series to highlight women’s voices in media creation.
30% Is A Stat About Female Orgasm, But It's Not What You Think...probably, unless you read my blog a lot...
30% is often used as the percentage of women that can orgasm vaginally. The reality is that there’s no physical evidence any women at all can orgasm vaginally, and even looking at surveys (where there’s no physical evidence to back up what people say) 30% is still a really high estimate. This post goes over the details about where this number comes from and what it ctually can and can’t say about female orgasmic experience.
Squirrels, Fire, Diabetic Cats, and Cinnamon Toast - Random Thoughts From Me
A little about my life recently; including a squirrel sucking it’s own member
A Dirty Story With 7 Realistic Lady-gasms!
An SSL Review of the depictions/discussions of female orgasm in an erotic story. It was so surprisingly lady-gasm realistic that I had to write about it.
Terrible Advice About Vaginal Masturbation
I go into detail about the crappy answer a Bustle advisor gives for the questions, “How does vaginal orgasm work? Not clitoral.”
5 Black Woman Directed Movies Touching on Racial Injustice in Law Enforcement
A list of 5 movies I have seen that are directed by black women. This is part of an ongoing series to highlight women’s voices in media creation.
Does masturbation have to include orgasm - a debate with myself
A bit of a stream of consciousness debate with myself. Is the advice that orgasm shouldn’t be a focus of masturbation sensible and progressive; or is it a secretly poisonous byproduct of a rarely acknowledged sexual culture in which women have very little actual choice and opportunity for orgasm.
Ladies Have Non-Specific Arousal Patterns? - A Journal Article I Read
A detailed, but (mostly) plainly worded summary of a scientific journal article called “A Sex Difference in the Specificity of Sexual Arousal.” My goal is to give more people an opportunity to engage with peer reviewed research about female orgasm and hopefully incorporate it more into our culture understanding.
She Devil - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in She-Devil – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
Ejaculation Associated With Bladder Muscle Overactivity? - A Journal Article I Read
A detailed, but (mostly) plainly worded summary of a scientific journal article called “Do women with female ejaculation have detrusor overactivity?” My goal is to give more people an opportunity to engage with peer reviewed research about female orgasm and hopefully incorporate it more into our culture understanding.
Future Man - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in Future Man Season 1 Episode 3 – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.