Pleasure and "Choosing" Whether To Have An Orgasm - Why Women Deserve Just A Little Better

Pleasure and "Choosing" Whether To Have An Orgasm - Why Women Deserve Just A Little Better

Inspired by a blog post from the author of, “What’s Up Down There? Questions You’d Only Ask Your Gynecologist If She Was Your Best Friend,” I consider women and the “choice” to orgasm with a partner - “While acknowledging that women can enjoy and find pleasure in sex without orgasm, we should also be working to make the choice to have or not to have an orgasm an actual viable choice for women.”

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The Kim Cattrall / Samantha Split in All of Us

The Kim Cattrall / Samantha Split in All of Us

Kim Cattrall (of Samantha fame in Sex and the City), wrote a book to specifically separate herself and her sex life from her character. It highlights to me the problematic depiction of a sexual woman that ‘has sex like a man’ - because in reality it’s a depiction of a woman that unabashedly has sex that is pleasurable for a man, but fakes her own pleasure…yet we are unwilling to see it that way.

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