Pleasure and "Choosing" Whether To Have An Orgasm - Why Women Deserve Just A Little Better
Inspired by a blog post from the author of, “What’s Up Down There? Questions You’d Only Ask Your Gynecologist If She Was Your Best Friend,” I consider women and the “choice” to orgasm with a partner - “While acknowledging that women can enjoy and find pleasure in sex without orgasm, we should also be working to make the choice to have or not to have an orgasm an actual viable choice for women.”
A critique of "Hard Core," an article by Natasha Vargas-Cooper
I critique "Hard Core," an article by Natasha Vargas-Cooper in the Atlantic. It’s not great on scientific logic about innate gender qualities, but the emotional place it’s coming from feels complicated, raw and very real to me in a way that I believe is important.
The Kim Cattrall / Samantha Split in All of Us
Kim Cattrall (of Samantha fame in Sex and the City), wrote a book to specifically separate herself and her sex life from her character. It highlights to me the problematic depiction of a sexual woman that ‘has sex like a man’ - because in reality it’s a depiction of a woman that unabashedly has sex that is pleasurable for a man, but fakes her own pleasure…yet we are unwilling to see it that way.
The Alternate Universe Orgasm...Oh what if things were different...
What if we thought of male sexuality. male orgasm, and male masturbation the way we think of those things for females. Spoiler: it’s stupid and insane.